In the last couple of days, we talked about Sexually Transmitted Diseases and how they can damage your immune system without knowing since you may not show signs and symptoms until permanent damage has occurred.

Yes, it’s normal to worry about catching something while having sex, but the steps you take to practice a safer sex life might definitely save you from any sexually transmitted disease nightmare. Here are the steps you can take to a safer sex life.

1.Be selective when choosing a sex partner.

If you are practicing abtinance, have your self and partner tested because it will be crazy to wait to have sex to later find out the person you were saving for actually give an STD ( sexually transmitted disease)

Have sex with only a partner that makes you feel safe about your health concerns. Someone who loves you would want to have the same goals.

2. Limit the number of sex partner.

It’s definitely not my place to tell you how many partners you want to have sex with, but I can tell that it is safest to have sex with only one person who is having sex with only you.

3 And if you do have multiple partners, protect yourself.

Use latex condoms every time when having sex.

Be mindful to use water-based lubricant because oil based can damage your condoms which put you at risk of contracting STDs.

4. Talk to your partners about sex.

If you’re gonna be in bed with someone, I’m sure it’s necessary to be comfortable about expressing your concerns and desires.

Be direct about your sexual needs and each other sexual health concerns/history

5. Get tested. Get in the habit.

Have an annual physical exam. For ladies (pap test,pelvic exam ect)

Have a check-up for STDs at least once a year and avoid using IV drugs

6. Be responsible.

If you think that you have been exposed to a sexually transmitted infection, go to your primary care doctor or health department and urge your partner to get tested at the same time.

Take all the medication that is prescribed to you and you only. Do not take medications that are not yours and don’t share yours.

Practice abtinance while on medication until you and your partner considered to be cured.

7.Stay in charge.

Having good judgment can save you. Don’t have sex if your partner appears to apparent signs of STIs

Don’t let alcohol jeopardize your judgement specially if you’re not in a good environment. Some people just don’t respect other’s bodies.

Please, don’t let embarrassment become a health risk.

There is no shame in talking about sex. Some people may find it shameful and don’t want to share the information with their healthcare provider. ( Your answer is safe with them). And if you feel uncomfortable with a doctor, you have the right to choose another that put you at ease. Speak openly and frankly with your doctor and take charge of your health.

When you and partner don’t have to worry about STDs, sex will be more enjoyable.

Until next time darlings đź’›.